Published On 29 Jun 2015
When you have trouble deciding if you should go on a second date with a guy, you shouldn’t let superficial reasons influence you. All you have to do is take a look at your first, and the warning signs that show you a second one wouldn’t be better.
Once you figure out the signs you shouldn’t go on a second date, you’ll be able to save your time and energy for a guy who actually deserves it. Here are the big red flags that prove the first date should also be the last one.
1. His Ex Was the Main Topic of Conversation
Guys love to talk about themselves, and they can sometimes be too chatty because they’re feeling anxious. However, lingering on the topic on his exes is a warning sign. Whether he sounds like he’s not over her, or he portrays himself as a victim, it’s an inappropriate discussion for a first date. You should never accept a second date if he shows how little respect he has for his ex.
2. He’s Already Clingy
It’s fine if he’s into you more than you are into him after just one date, but if he gets annoying with too many calls and texts, that’s one of the signs you shouldn’t go on a second date. Your ego might be stroked by his efforts, but if he’s so into you that it feels like borderline stalking, you really shouldn’t accept to go out again.
3. You Were Bored During the First One
Tags: first date red flags, first date warning signs, second date problems
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