Published On 23 Feb 2016
Telling someone you’re not interested should be enough, but unfortunately most men have been conditioned to think that the more they try, the higher the chances you’ll say yes. Dealing with their advances isn’t pleasant, but there are plenty of ways to get them to leave you alone.
When you’re dealing with guys who won’t take no for an answer, it’s important not to engage too much. If they want an honest answer as to why you’re not interested, give it, but don’t let them push your around. Forget about your compassionate nature, and don’t allow yourself to be manipulated by a creep, no matter how “nice” he might seem.
1. Always Be Direct
Giving false hope is the last thing you want to do, since that might extend his relentless attempts to get you to go out with him. Saying “I’m not interested” should be enough, but for many men it’s a signal to double down. If he continues to insist, follow it up with a “Please stop talking to me”. You might think that’s a rude thing to say, but he’s already stepped over social boundaries by not accepting your refusal.
2. Ignore Him
If he’s still trying, the silent treatment is the best way of dealing with guys who won’t take no for an answer. Turn your back to him and pretend he’s not even there. If he’s harassing you with texts or messages on social media, never respond. Don’t even read them, delete them right away, and do not take his calls.
3. Lie
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