Published On 08 Dec 2014
Even if things are going great in your relationship, a few topics of conversation can create tension, from a cringe worthy moment to a full blown fight. Be tactful and stay away from the things that most men usually react to in a very negative way.
Here are the worst things to say to your boyfriend, topics and phrases to avoid if you want to maintain a positive atmosphere in your relationship.
1. “Promise me you’ll keep this to yourself...”
Even if you’ve been together for a long time, you don’t have to share absolutely everything with your guy, especially when that includes secrets or details that are embarrassing for other people in your life. Don’t unburden yourself when it comes to your friends secrets by saddling him with the burden of keeping quiet about it.
2. “I’m fine”
A passive aggressive attitude doesn’t contribute anything healthy to your relationship, so you should avoid it. “I’m fine” is one of the worst things to say to your boyfriend, particularly when you both know it’s a lie. If you don’t want to talk about it right away, simply tell him you’ll discuss it later. But expecting him to read your mind will get you nowhere, especially when the issue could be easily solved with good communication.
3. “My ex used to...”
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